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Narcissism Thread
Anonymous
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Hey /üb/, how much do you know about Narcissism?
I'd like to direct your attention to Dr. Ramani Dursavula - clinical psychologist, professor at CSU LA, author, youtuber etc, and arguably the leading authority on Narcissism.
The problem with Narcissism as a clinical disorder is that it doesnt bear any of the classical signs of a disorder; the people who bear the symptoms of a narcissistic relationship are not the narcissist themselves, but the people around them. The problem is exacerbated by the fact that narcissists are over-represented in otherwise successful, prestigious, and competitive professions, fields, and careers, effectively calling into question the idea of dysfunction and disorder.
Narcissistic abuse is real, and it's a problem that is not getting any better by the cultural shifts brought about by mass media and technology. What's more, it isnt just the narcissist one has to be on the lookout for, there are plenty of people out their doing the bidding (they're called 'flying monkeys', ala the Wizard of Oz) of narcissists.
Arguably the worst trait of narcissists and those who work on their behalf is that of Gaslighting, which is the deliberate undermining of a person, their perspective/experience, reputation and standing, and other social interactions.
As an easy example, let's look at CNN. Let's assume for a moment that Brian Stelter, Rachel Maddow, Chris Quomo and Don Lemon arent malignant narcissists. I know, but bear with me.
It doesnt matter for those mentioned to not be narcissists if their job is to gaslight on behalf of Jeff Zucker. And what are some examples of gaslighting? Russian hackers, Quid pro quo, Epstein killed himself, Hunyer Biden, and of course muh Covid. A person can be gaslit hundreds or even thousands of times a day just by watching the TV, and that says nothing about their interpersonal interactions.
Let's look at things from a broader scope, and I'll throw out a few names. Mark Zuckerberg, Jack Dorsey, Er8c Schmidt. How many times has one or more of their companies abused one or more individuals on their platform, and has publically denied it even in the face of evidence?
The purpose of this thread is to provide examples of narcissism as well as resources and information that can enable a gradually emerging /üb/erpony to better navigate the world and some of the more nefarious players they may come into contact with. To start things off, here are some good primer videos to broach the subject, by Dr Ramani. She has hundreds of videos ranging from 6-20+ depending on how deep she goes with each topic, all relating ultimately to Narcissism, abuse, awareness, and healing. As one who has lived with narcissistic abuse for years and am only now becoming better able to identify/detect and mitigate the presence and practices of narcissists (most especially malignant ones), my hope is that the content is as informative and actionable to the viewer as I have found it.
https://youtu.be/o8U321uCcvc
https://youtu.be/B9knwjZTaOU
https://youtu.be/d79qPeIt1GY
https://youtu.be/UTS5XsZe9Jg
https://youtu.be/lLsH2NJD1Vo
https://youtu.be/trh_eTkZLeU
https://youtu.be/8S5BtjpF9dA
https://youtu.be/qbFBOAmmu7Y
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Anonymous
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>Narcissists Destroy Who they cannot Control
>The narcissist has no use for the one he or she cannot control. If the narc in your life cannot control you, you mean nothing to them.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8JAUzP4b1X0
Mirror:
https://www.bitchute.com/video/zgxylCfB3M2H/
Anonymous
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I believe the following goes here. It is an amazing insight into the mindset of virtue-signalers.

>Our Biggest Problem? The People of the Lie - (28:52 long)
>Evil Society Leftism Conscience Peck Virtue
>Virtue Signalling, performative 'goodness' and scapegoating are used by people who refuse to confront their conscience. My thoughts on M Scott Peck's book "The People of the Lie".
https://rumble.com/v2ixy94-our-biggest-problem-the-people-of-the-lie.html
Mirror:
https://www.bitchute.com/video/oo58Z179h31R/
Anonymous
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>>6647
Anonymous
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This thread saved my life. Thank you who ever started it.
Anonymous
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>>6719
Glad to known fren.
OP
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>>6719
You're welcome, glad it was there for you
Anonymous
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>>6722
Now it's getting to the psychotic part of my narcissist. I think she stole my meds from a store. She might be going to jail. But for me I have to forgive and move on without here in my life. https://twitter.com/i/status/1660392004675665921
Anonymous
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>>6736
>Jim Carrey on the Power of Jesus Christ
>Jim Carrey
This globohomo faggot is literally a satanist great priest in case you didn't know it.
Same path than Ye and many Hollyjew actors claiming to embrace Jesus while participating in black masses and being members of the masonry cult.
Anonymous
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File (hide): C2C7FB739D99B916C0256F0E2F107C26-6715520.mp4 (6.4 MB, Resolution:1920x1080 Length:00:00:14, mbsawevkmeu.mp4) [play once] [loop]
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>>6737
I profess Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior and our living God as the Incarnate. Eventually on a timeline that is infanite and playing outside our space time like Q from Star Trek. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rT_S-ShiOtQ
Anonymous
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>>6739
>I profess Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior and our living God as the Incarnate
All of which makes me wonder, wouldn't be Jesus as the anti-thesis of Satan also an artificial duality to manage the masses?
I mean, considering that big chunks of history are fake the narrative of two opposite forces, and we have to choose a side is suspicious.
In the end, Christianity is an ideology that disempowers its followers while promising rewards in the afterlife, interestingly, no one has come back from death to confirm that.
Just saying.
Anonymous
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>>6741
The Enemy does everything to burn down 'the orchard'. Numerous chances to turn around and repent.
The Enemy is the falsehood.
Those who actually follow God's Word made flesh who died and rose again, and Who has the best plan(s), and The Holy Spirit who helps and assists in hitting the mark and love God and love one another with a location that lights the love is difficult to find and keep safe from The Enemy at all times.
Anonymous
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>>6743
What this means is that the headquarters has to be inside a person. At leasy until Jesus (God's Word and Son) comes back.
The seal is The Holy Ghost.
>>6741
>Control and Dominate the masses
That's The Evil One's whole thing.
Observe Communism it causes immense harm in multiple areas and corrupts.
What Jesus has done is give the supreme weapon (better than a scalpel) to cut seemingly nonphysical things.
And the authority to do so.
However not following in God's perfection and allowing God to do the operation tends to have harmful consequences. In ten yeas, hundred years, thousand or million years.
If a person joins a prostitute and gets AIDS and other sicknesses that's that person's choice. The sickness is the result. All that starts in the unseen, the heart.
God sees the heart and more.
God then has preventative measures, solutions and what happens afterwards and surgical options.
>Confirmation
Well the dead sea did turn red a while ago and other this are happening.
Keep in mind God prefers to cooperate in the reality creation process.
Anonymous
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>>6743
>>6744
You are derailing the thread.
There is a Christian containment thread where you can post at will >>>/vx/166839 →
Anonymous
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>>6745
Thanks I'll keep it down after this.
>>6741
Admittedly it is off topic starting from, where from Narcissism it strays off.
>>6737
To >>6741
Culminating in my replies.
>>6591
>Narcissists Destroy Who they cannot Control
This also applies to beings unseen.
Anonymous
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>>6746
Yeah. I just exposed my covert narcissist. I figured I was a car and pay check to her. My therapist keeps repeating a sociopaths always lie. I saw, that of every one in my family, it was her the who time. The one who was telling lies and manipulating, She is also stealing my medications to get fuck up even more from her "pain" meds, From her pill mill I have a video on her fucked up on drugs. I would love to post it here it is funny as hello.
>>6741
>>6743
>>6745
You need a strong believe system that keeps you from becoming one and keeps you from going into insanity like a person With (NPD) Narcissistic Personality Disorder especially if it was abuse from a parent.
Anonymous
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>The Psychology of Psychopaths – Predators who Walk Among Us
>Psychopaths are human predators. They coerce, manipulate, lie, steal, defraud, abuse, and take life, without feeling guilt or remorse. A leading expert on psychopathy, Robert Hare, estimates that 1% of people are psychopaths; while the clinical psychologist Martha Stout suggests this figure is closer to 4%. Studies indicate that psychopaths are over-represented in the corporate executive world and in politics. In this video we are going to explore the psychology of the psychopath as this knowledge can help us minimize the damage they inflict on us, those we care about, and humanity at large.
https://academyofideas.com/2023/07/the-psychology-of-psychopaths-predators-who-walk-among-us/
Video (13:43 long):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VOyLraNMXM0
Mirror:
https://www.bitchute.com/video/bBzh26q14Bpo/
Anonymous
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>Christ-cuckery in my Narcissism thread
Careful, one might feel inclined to illustrate the phenomenon of dogmatic narcissism, where instead of the individual, an ideology is asserted to be infallible and/morally unimpeachable.
Think Inquisiion.
Anyway, bumping for visibility
Anonymous
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>>7738
>dogmatic narcissism
>where instead of the individual, an ideology is asserted to be infallible and/morally unimpeachable
I'm hard pressed to find a clinical definition of this. Where did you here this from?
Anonymous
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>>7739
It's called authoritarianism, anon
Anonymous
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>>7740
Narcissism is a psychosis. Authoritarianism is a political/administrative ideology. They are not the same.
Anonymous
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>>7742
Assuming you are allowing for the distinction between clinical narcissism (pathology) and narcissistic tendencies/traits (conditioned behavior), that's mostly true. What was referred to is when individuals operate in a conclusively narcissistic manner except the 'focus' is something in addition to themselves (an ideology, much as you indicate).
Having said and continuing the example, it seems disingenuously reductive to rationalize the mentality that leads to instances like the Inquisition as being the result of 'administrative ideology', especially when the displayed behaviors and rationalizations - aside from the source/cause - is identical.
Anonymous
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>>7743
>especially when the displayed behaviors and rationalizations - aside from the source/cause - is identical.
They are only superficially similar, and that doesn't mean that they are the same thing.
Narcissistic personalities and authoritarian ideologies and institutions have no correlation. Narcissists are evenly distributed throughout the population and political spectrum: you'll find just as many lolbertarian narcissists as you will with the most totalitarian commies.
Anonymous
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>>7745
>superficially similar
Perhaps when analyzed superficially, but who said they were the same thing?
The unity is in the perception/fixation that malevolent/abusive behavior is acceptable, justifiable, or even warranted because of the interests/desires of "the thing" (whether that thing is a pathological predisposition to the self or to watever conceptual/ideological thing).
In that at the core of either is lousy rationalization for preying on others and an unwillingness of the perpetrator to consider the possibility that they could be wrong, they're like flip sides of the same coin.
Anonymous
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>>7747
>The unity is in the perception/fixation that malevolent/abusive behavior is acceptable
That isn't exclusive to authoritarian systems, if you haven't noticed the ambient malevolence/abuse in our neoliberal status quo.
>whether that thing is a pathological predisposition to the self or to watever conceptual/ideological thing
Narcissism is by definition fixation with that self. Once you deviate from that, it's another psychosis entirely.
Anonymous
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>>7747
>justifiable, or even warranted because of the interests/desires of "the thing"
This is absurdly value. Some "things" are worth protecting, like having a functioning society, or the continued existence of your race, even through means that libs would consider "abusive" (violence, discrimination, border control, expulsions, deportations, jailing tiny hat wearing bankers for usury, etc).
Anonymous
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>>7749
>value
*vague
Anonymous
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>>7749
It's open-ended because narcissism and extreme authoritarianism aren't the only two pathologies that involve a predisposition of righteousness; "the thig" is a placeholder for both and other pathologies.
Quite telling however, that you are wont to suggest there are exceptions to the idea that abuse is never warranted. It is not "protecting" an idea to engage in malevolence, it only undermines the thing (assuming there is any validity, morality, etc. to begin with)
Again, the Inquisition.
Anonymous
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>>7751
>It is not "protecting" an idea to engage in malevolence
Define malevolence.
>it only undermines the thing
What thing? Context matters.
Anonymous
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Quick follow-up
>violence, discrimination, border control, expulsions, deportations, jailing tiny hat wearing bankers for usury, etc
Assuming by 'violence' you mean reactionary - where one isn't the aggressor - that isn't violence, that's self defense and is among the principle rights of an individual.
The rest of that isn't abuse, so what was your point exacty?
>>7752
>define malevolence
Im sure you can manage a search engine
>what thing
Which would you like to address?
Anonymous
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>>7753
>Im sure you can manage a search engine
I know the definition of the word. I'm asking you what your opinion is of "malevolent" things that are never justified.
>Assuming by 'violence' you mean reactionary - where one isn't the aggressor - that isn't violence
No, proactive violence too, especially when removing the long nose tribe from your herd's grazing space.
>The rest of that isn't abuse, so what was your point exacty?
It can easily be considered abusive depending on who you're asking, especially to neoliberals.
Anonymous
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>>7754
>I'm asking you what your opinion is of "malevolent" things that are never justified.
Abuse. Pretty sure I said hat more than once.
>No, proactive violence too, especially when removing the long nose tribe from your herd's grazing space.
You couldn't have better illustrated narcissistic/authoritarian rationalization. So which are you: a narcissist, an authoritarian? Both? A flyin monkey, perhaps?
>It can easily be considered abusive depending on who you're asking, especially to neoliberals.
So, because other individuals and groups engage in willful ignorance, using words in clear/obvious opposition to their meaning, that means it's okay for (you)?
That last one (the flying monkey) is particularly common amongst authoritarians
Anonymous
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>>7755
>Abuse. Pretty sure I said hat more than once.
Okay, define "abuse" then, particularly in context of authoritarian politics.
>an authoritarian
I do see merit in some policies that could be considered authoritarian by some.
>So, because other individuals and groups engage in willful ignorance, using words in clear/obvious opposition to their meaning, that means it's okay for (you)?
I mean by common colloquial definition.
And I bring up neoliberals, because the status quo is the point of reference by which authoritarianism is defined. In the West, the status quo is neoliberalism, and has been for a while now.
Anonymous
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>>7756
Again, that whole search engine thingy. However, if you're looking for examples of abuse with a political context, the weaponization of the IRS on conservative groups and non-profits. Or even easier, the weaponization of the 'justice' department.
>I do see merit
I do recall suggesting you're an authoritarian
>the status quo is neoliberalism
Highly contested but irrelevant and an argument for another time/thread. If you aren't going to use words as theyre defined - especially under the auspices of "they did it first" - then one wonders what your intentions are.
Anonymous
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>>7757
>the weaponization of the IRS on conservative groups and non-profits
That's not authoritarianism, that's just illegal misuse of power.
>weaponization of the 'justice' department
Authoritarianism =/= corruption.
These sorts of things aren't authoritarian practices. They appear in neoliberal and libertarian political environments too.
>If you aren't going to use words as theyre defined
The definition of "abuse" is highly subjective and context based, especially when it comes to politics.
>then one wonders what your intentions are
I'm trying to lay groundwork to have a productive conversation.
Anonymous
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>>7758
>That's not authoritarianism, that's just illegal misuse of power
It is both. Illegal misuse of power is he buse, and authoritarianism is the philosophy that is used to justify he abuse.
>Authoritarianism =/= corruption.
Who said it did? You know, you're trying to put an awful lot of words in my mouth and doing alot of semantics for someone trying to
>lay groundwork to have a productive conversation
especially with this
>The definition of "abuse" is highly subjective and context based
as it very clearly isn't. Leftoids (not exclusively) love to try and undermine the meaning of words, but I didnt think you'd stopp to it
Anonymous
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>>7759
>authoritarianism is the philosophy that is used to justify he abuse
No, you're thinking of totalitarianism, which is a system in which all available institutions are used as vehicles for enforcing ideology. Totalitarianism implies some authoritarianism, but they are not the same thing.
>Who said it did?
You implied it by presenting examples of corruption as authoritarianism.
>as it very clearly isn't
Then we'll have to agree to disagree, because your definition of abuse is clearly not universal.
Anonymous
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>>7760
There you go again, trying to put words in my mouth. It'd be nice if you would stop playing semantic games. Like the long-nosed tribe you were on about.
>totalitarianism, which is a system in which all available institutions are used as vehicles for enforcing ideology
Which is A. incorrect, and B., not what I was talking about, gave examples of, or suggested.
>you implied it
Incorrect again. The ACTION was corrupt, but the MOTIVATION was authoritarian. Reading comprehension isnt your forte is it? (Im kidding, it's pretty obvious you're arguing in bad faith,... er, "trying to creatively interpret what I've said to mean something different"). Again, like that longnose tribe.
Think about that

https://www.britannica.com/question/What-is-the-difference-between-totalitarianism-and-authoritarianism
Anonymous
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>>7761
>The ACTION was corrupt, but the MOTIVATION was authoritarian
I don't believe you understand what authoritarianism means.
>Like the long-nosed tribe you were on about.
Now you're just resorting to ad homenim. I think there's little left to discuss here.
Anonymous
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>>7762
There was never anything to discuss. You clearly feel definitions are subjective.
Anonymous
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Whatever you say, faggot
Anonymous
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Nothing nurses inadequacy like a smug pony, eh?
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>7765
Ahem
Anonymous
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Gasp! Not TWO smug ponies, this is unprecedented (butthurt)!
Anonymous
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Obsessed.
Anonymous
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>inb4 anon drags this out so that he or someone else can try to use the incoming 7777 get as though doing so can be considered an irrefutable argument
Anonymous
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>still being this buck broken
Anonymous
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Do carry on, you're only giving further example to what this entire thread is about
Anonymous
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What was >>7777 →
Anonymous
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>>7821
That seems entirely unrelated to this thread
Anonymous
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Bringing things back into focus per the actual topic, I hope that this video isn't actionable

https://youtu.be/bw-TqxkKDI4?si=A7dZZvO9v95-F8zX