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Narcissism Thread
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Among the biggest societal symptoms of narcissists and narcissism is the inappropriate degree to which narcissistic manipulation has infected dominance hierarchies, replacing competence and integrity with cronyism and self/group-serving and protecting behaviors, where the needs of the team/faction outweigh the interests of the group as a whole. A person can be the most functional and diligent participant in a group, and still find themselves ostracized, maligned, and defamed simply for not aligning with the interest of a/the narcissist and those in thrall, regardless of how effectively their efforts align with the group's professed intent.
>pic related
/mlpol/ can readily observe this dynamic in places such as derpibooru and even 4chan its self, even without knowing the names and identities of the players, as well as far more obvious examples such as news and media. Hell, even Congress has 'the squad', which while being a largely ineffective attempt at making/maintaining such a dynamic still indicates an attempt to exalt a small group above others while being a highly illegitimate 'authority'.
Narcissism is everywhere and has infected every aspect of society without exception, and my premise is that one can only hope to navigate all of it with knowledge (and it is my hope that experience be unnecessary).
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Anonymous
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[YouTube] How narcissists destroy your dreams and limit your potential [Embed]
Anonymous
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[YouTube] When narcissists use positivity to control you [Embed]
[YouTube] Narcissists and Toxic Positivity [Embed]
[YouTube] What Happens When a Narcissist Encounters Authenticity [Embed]
Anonymous
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>>3867
It's certainly logical. People with bloated egos are naturally drawn to positions of power over others, however small that power may be.
Anonymous
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While that's true, narcissism goes way beyond bloated ego. If one hasnt experienced one (with the 'mask' off) it can be difficult to imagine. These are people for whom the only 'rule' that exists is 'what they want is justified' (no matter how unjustifiable). Often what that amounts to is power, control, and a steady supply of thralls but at the heart of it is a very fragile and easily upset sense of self which once upset triggers a feeling of self-loathing for which a narcissist will do anything and everything to be rid of; nothing is off the table. Their feelings are ultimately what drives them, and the elimination of bad feelings means FAR more to them than whatever injuries and damage they cause to others.
Anonymous
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Now let's take a moment to look at Narcissist enablers (I call them thralls, but enablers is the technical term)
[YouTube] 6 things narcissist enablers say to you [Embed]
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I don't really understand what you're trying to say. Are you trying to give tips on how to resist narcissists from manipulating you?

I already reject simping, e-celebs, etc. What power does a narcissist have over chad rule 8?
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Anonymous
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This video more precisely addresses what I was trying to get at in my previous post. Theres literally hundreds of videos, so please bear with
[YouTube] This cognitive trap keeps people stuck in relationships with narcissists [Embed]
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What causes narcicism?
I'm aware of NPD, but can it also be caused by bad upbringing?
Anonymous
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A very good question. Rarely do narcissists come from a completely viable upbringing. In some cases they were conditioned by a narcissistic parent or caregiver, in other instances they were in an otherwise healthy environment that was lacking in one or more aspects. There's no cut and dry 'if X then narcissist' equation, at least not that is available by contemporary analysis.
But at its core, narcissism is a behavior pattern and disposition that tends to emerge as a result of a conditioning phase (whether childhood or even into adulthood) that was adverse and unhealthy. What that means is, narcissism is its self an attempt at a self defense mechanism. Having said, when it comes to a point where a person A. feels entitled to, and B. actively manipulates, controls, undermines, gaslight, etc. those they interact with that the relationship becomes toxic/predatory.
In short, narcissists are themselves the product of troubled (but often to the outsider appearing 'normal' or even admirable) upbringing, who then conclude that in the pursuit of avoiding negative feelings/emotions, they are justified in causing trouble for others.
[YouTube] How a Narcissist is Created [Embed]
Anonymous
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[YouTube] The narcissist and the straw that breaks the camel's back [Embed]
[YouTube] What are "boundaries"? (Glossary of Narcissistic Relationships) [Embed]
The ultimate tool to navigating and mitigating a narcissistic relationship really boils down to boundaries and enforcement. A person ought to be very firm in their resolution/conviction of what is acceptable and appropriate, AND be willing to either leave the situation or confront it head on. 'When' a person reaches that point varies by individual and temperament, and people with a recognizable history of narcissistic abuse are often the most sensitive and quick to address/confront later instances involving narcissists.
And of course, depending on the degree of control/influence a narcissist has in a given context, that confrontation can often result in the complete dismissal or loss of status/position for the person confronting it. In a workplace for example, a person who confronts a narcissistic co-worker or boss is all but guaranteed to be gaslit, undermined, and defamed to all the people the narcissist has in their grip, resulting in unfair disciplinary practices, demotions, and even termination (and in a few cases, legal action) simply for setting and enforcing clear, stable, and reasonable boundaries.
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[YouTube] What happens to the scapegoat in adulthood? [Embed]
Im'a keep posting these. With any luck they only pertain to my experience, but on a statistical level I highly doubt it
Anonymous
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>>3944
Experience? Do share.
Anonymous
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Father is a covert narcissist, mother was a codependent enabler who spent most days passed out drunk, older brother was physically abusive with no respect for boundaries who was also a golden child (so why would he?) and me being the scapegoat/black sheep. My role was cemented in place because I quite embarrassingly (social/family reputation and all) went and got physically/sexually abused by a caregiver for most of a year at age 4, who had developed unaddressed narcissism/low-functioning sociopathy because she had been likewise physically/sexually abused by her father as a child.
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[YouTube] The #1 Way To Identify A Narcissist [Embed]
Here's another guy. Hes got a PHD in psychology and works as a psychotherapist with emphasis on narcissism. He tends to ramble a bit more than Dr. Ramani, but his content is decent.
Anonymous
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[YouTube] 8 Tactics Narcissists Use To "Train" You To Comply [Embed]
Anonymous
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[YouTube] Sadistic narcissists [Embed]
Anonymous
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[YouTube] 8 Cues Narcissists Watch For As They Seek Narcissistic Supply [Embed]
And one more for good measure
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>>3866
How can i tell if i'm a narcissist?
Anonymous
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>>3957
Easily. Do you want to be a good person?
Anonymous
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Yea i do
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Anonymous
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Whoops, second citation was supposed to be directed at >>3957
Anonymous
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Further to my point
[YouTube] Affirmations You Won't Hear From a Gaslighting Narcissist [Embed]
Anonymous
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[YouTube] When you ask narcissists to reflect on what they said to you [Embed]
Anonymous
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[YouTube] 7 Evidences Of A Narcissist's Delusional Thinking [Embed]
Anonymous
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[YouTube] 8 Red-Flag Phrases Gaslighting Narcissists Like To Use [Embed]
Anonymous
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[YouTube] What are "flying monkeys"? (Glossary of Narcissistic Relationships) [Embed]
Anonymous
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>Nothing New Under the Sun: When Dostoyevsky Described Diabolical Narcissism
https://www.barnhardt.biz/2021/07/07/nothing-new-under-the-sun-when-dostoyevsky-described-diabolical-narcissism/
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[YouTube] Narcissists Who Don't Initially Seem Narcissistic [Embed]
Anonymous
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[YouTube] Is your dad a narcissist? [Embed]
Fin
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Hello, everyone! Have I posted in this thread before?
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>Covid Cult
>Why the DeathJabbed will insist to their dying breath that YOU must play the Clottery too: Anger, Hatred, Jealously & Fear, synthesized in one word: SPITE
>Anger, hatred, jealousy and fear are the four emotions which constitute the Diabolical Narcissism emotional palette. The one word that describes the synthesis of these emotional dynamics is SPITE.
https://www.barnhardt.biz/2021/08/01/why-the-deathjabbed-will-insist-to-their-dying-breath-that-you-must-play-the-clottery-too-anger-hatred-jealously-fear-synthesized-in-one-word-spite/
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Anonymous
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You get angry at OP for overplaying the effects of narcissism, but you seem to have taken this thread awfully personally... Curious.
Anonymous
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I feel like youre having trouble opening up, that youre putting up walls to avoid speaking your mind. Its okay anon, you can say what you really feel
Anonymous
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>>4370
What the fuck nigger. It's been 60 days more or less. Unless you're referencing something else.
Go here next time
>>2676 →
Then reference the post(s) or something. Otherwise it's a shot in the dark. Or don't.
Anonymous
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Imagine having an ego so fragile that you'd bump a thread that hasn't been posted to in two months, because you can't handle the thought that you might be narcissistic.
Anonymous
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From the screenshot just posted at >>>/mlpol/320710 →
Anonymous
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>>4376
>Oh look, my thread on /vx/ has finally been deleted.
Anonymous
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mixed nuts 2. I had expressed an interest in it being deleted several months ago, but it wasnt until I started openly naming narcissists (and an oddly intervening time period) that it seems to have finally been deleted.
How odd, the archive for /vx/ doesnt seem to be operating. It couldnt be that I said some things in that thread that individuals want not to be seen. It probably isnt, but its still 'funny' that the archive seems to have neglected /vx/. It works for /üb/, I cant imagine what the issue could be.
But enough of that, this thread is about narcissists and narcissism and as OP (he's not wrong) I do a disservice by engaging derailing conversations and inquiry.
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>>4379
Four seconds to go to the “search” bar, type in “mixed nuts 2,” and click on the most recent result.
https://mlpol.net/vx/145842#145842
Anonymous
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Addendum
After painting myself 6 shades of idiot, I have to publicly acknowledge several oversights, including that mixed nuts 2 is not gone. I wont attempt to excuse the fault, Ill just acknowedge it and move on, while retracting the premature speculation that resulted.
Anonymous
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Me >>4373 and other Anon >>4370 are different users.
There wasn't much for me to say itt. Uhhh Political Ponerology is nice to know.
Anonymous
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Wifi fuckery atm
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>A sobering read: Critical Race Theory and all Marxist social projects ultimately create Diabolical Narcissists whose trajectory is explicitly suicidal
>The thing about suicidal narcissists is that they have a very nasty habit of becoming MURDEROUS suicidal narcissists. Cross reference: the islamic political faux-religion. Why? Because like the demons they emulate, Diabolical Narcissists are fueled and animated by SPITE.
https://www.barnhardt.biz/2021/10/15/a-sobering-read-critical-race-theory-and-all-marxist-social-projects-ultimately-create-diabolical-narcissists-whose-trajectory-is-explicitly-suicidal/
Anonymous
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What the fuck?
I know Rand said these fuckers want us to die more than they want to live and want us to starve more than they want to eat, but...
Holy shit.
Those demons actually want to be slain, and they hate us for not putting them out of their misery.
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>>4440
Yup.

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