>be me in Atlanta, want conservative gf
>want to try online dating because I'm too autistic to try social events and the odds are against me
>okcupid.com
>most couples on the splash page are either black guy+white girl or lesbian
Is there any hope to be found in online dating? Given that I'm in a mostly liberal area, surely the best option is to use modern technology to narrow down my choices?
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>>1159
Frankly you should know better than OKCupid or most mainstream dating sites. If you drink, just go to the bar to watch a football game. If you go to a restaurant, chat with whoever's willing about something you hear them talking about or showing interest in. You'll eventually meet a fellow channer or nerd of either sex; as rare as it is to show your power level at least a fair 5% of the population has visited the site and knows internet culture past Facebook; you'll find someone resting in that 5% eventually, and make friends with them.
You need to show confidence in yourself past just seeking dates. Seek social connections and gfs will practically pour onto you from those connections as you get to know the group. It's like an espionage, you need to gain others' trust and treat most women and men alike as friends before they'll even consider dating you. The friendzone does exist but it's not a permanent place to be as long as you're a confident person who doesn't let girls tie him around their fingers.
Frankly you should know better than OKCupid or most mainstream dating sites. If you drink, just go to the bar to watch a football game. If you go to a restaurant, chat with whoever's willing about something you hear them talking about or showing interest in. You'll eventually meet a fellow channer or nerd of either sex; as rare as it is to show your power level at least a fair 5% of the population has visited the site and knows internet culture past Facebook; you'll find someone resting in that 5% eventually, and make friends with them.
You need to show confidence in yourself past just seeking dates. Seek social connections and gfs will practically pour onto you from those connections as you get to know the group. It's like an espionage, you need to gain others' trust and treat most women and men alike as friends before they'll even consider dating you. The friendzone does exist but it's not a permanent place to be as long as you're a confident person who doesn't let girls tie him around their fingers.
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>>1159
You should not expect success from online dating sites, but that doesn't mean they can't be an effective tool. If your game is rusty and/or weak, online sites can get you (back?) in the habit of approaching women. Rather than talking yourself out of talking to women, use it to practice talking yourself into and interacting with women. Work on strategy and method overall, rather than shooting for one successful connection with one person. Another way to look at it is this: "None of these girls are gonna work out, so let's see what I can understand from their reactions to these methods" and apply different methods. You'd be surprised how easy it is to get a reaction to old-fashioned shitposting.
You should not expect success from online dating sites, but that doesn't mean they can't be an effective tool. If your game is rusty and/or weak, online sites can get you (back?) in the habit of approaching women. Rather than talking yourself out of talking to women, use it to practice talking yourself into and interacting with women. Work on strategy and method overall, rather than shooting for one successful connection with one person. Another way to look at it is this: "None of these girls are gonna work out, so let's see what I can understand from their reactions to these methods" and apply different methods. You'd be surprised how easy it is to get a reaction to old-fashioned shitposting.
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>>1310
>Online dating
>Cancer
I couldn't agree more.
Only the most promiscuous whores are there.
STDs and drama is the reward.
Stay away.
>Online dating
>Cancer
I couldn't agree more.
Only the most promiscuous whores are there.
STDs and drama is the reward.
Stay away.
I used to travel for work. Atlanta was the most unfriendly city I have even been to. I got shut down cold everywhere I went, by the end of the night (for science!) I even tried hitting on fatties and got rejected by them too.
I have been told that atlanta is very cliquish, if you aren't part of someone's social circle, you have zero chance.
And don't worry about women being liberal, unless they are hardcore feminazis, they will very much follow their man. I have seen women go conservative, I have also seen hard conservative women go completely liberal. Best thing you can probably do is get them off facebook so you are the main influence.
I have been told that atlanta is very cliquish, if you aren't part of someone's social circle, you have zero chance.
And don't worry about women being liberal, unless they are hardcore feminazis, they will very much follow their man. I have seen women go conservative, I have also seen hard conservative women go completely liberal. Best thing you can probably do is get them off facebook so you are the main influence.
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