Old out-dated early 20th Century thinking: >Raise children to be normal healthy heterosexuals aspiring to monogamous relationships that generate lots of children within stable married families.
Fresh new evolved & progressive 21st Century thinking: >Raise children to be pansexual polyamorous genderconfused ego-broken freaks whose life goals are nothing more than arranging who stuffs xers bumhole this week on grindr/tinder, or figuring out what porn they'll jerk off to while sitting alone in their empty studio apartments.
Why can't you accept Progress™? You are on the wrong side of history.