>>114160I couldn't put it better. Good entertainment fills in the gaps that our upbringings leave empty. Empathizing with characters, making logical deductions about stories and imagining what-if scenarios are perfectly healthy exercises of the mind that broaden one's thinking. This was true for our grandparents in radio and books, for our parents in television and movies and is still true to some extent for us with the internet. Entertainment itself is not generally the issue (though healthy parenting also requires physical exercise and social relationships), but it has been corrupted.
As for me personally, the first fandom I really got into was that of Undertale (yeah, that cancer-fest). Life was looking dull for me, politics got me whipped up into a frightful frenzy and I didn't have any real friends. That bright little quirky game that I discovered on Youtube in early 2016 gave me something to look forward to, practice to git gud at, and learn as much as possible about the personalities of the characters. The message of pacifism also helped as at the time I was struggling to reconcile the non-aggression of Christianity and libertarianism with modern problems. It made me ponder indirect and mutually helpful ways of resolving conflict. I even made some online friends (though not enough to satisfy my social need) with whom we share common interests and intelligent but unique perspectives.
It was a fun and hopeful little time. After playing through the game several times (which troubled me, as the meta of the game implies an alternate universe where you are an incarnate god: I loved that sense of moral questioning) I figured out just about all the secrets and came up with elaborate theories on what the characters represented, the nature of souls, magic, and consciousness, and what a sequel would entail. I looked forward to and enjoyed each of the game's songs put to words in "Undertale: the Musical" by Man on the Internet. To me, the game was a solid 9/10 (blocked from being a 10/10 only by the presence of lesbian characters), deserved GoTY over Fallout 4 (I've always hated mainstream games, though), and Toby Fox was a heretofore undiscovered literary genius who had hidden secrets
everywhere with important messages. I even wrote a hundred long-hand pages of two separate fanfics I wanted to publish and planned on a video game sequel that, unbeknownst to me, would have been much more like
Earthbound.Then I woke up. My little fanboy splurge was altogether private and at most I liked a couple of fandom pages on Facebook. I shared some of the legendary music with my parents and they were largely ambivalent about it, though they appreciated I was passionate about something. I had always distanced myself from the Tumblrite hordes and chalked them up to Sturgeon's Law, but by the end of 2016 my private enthusiasm was already petering out. I generally gave up on it entirely after Trump's victory. Other fans did not like him, obviously, despite my pointing out that it was a victory for peace. In any case, I was too engrossed in politics at that point and I wasn't going to let a few fans from yesteryear get to me. I recognized my appraisal had been overrated and, although still a great game, it does not deserve the lavish devotion.
After that I joined the Gravity Falls fandom for a bit, but it wasn't quite the same, as it was much smaller although it has a dedicated and talented core. If Undertale awoke a childhood I never had, Gravity Falls helped fulfill that by showing that, although it's okay to like family entertainment, one should grow up. For the past eight months I've sobered up and, though I like ponies, I'll never get into the fandom like I would have used to, and probably never will join a fandom to the same extent. I knew about ponies of course since they emerged on the internet, but I never tried to watch the show and was ambivalent to bronies.
tl;dr Every fandom has a cancerous part if it becomes absorbed in the content without any room for anything else that's not entertainment.
>>114156Agreed. With the decline of religion in society people no longer bond over church and religious discussions, but rather try to find bonds by worshipping their favorite cartoon and discussing whether shipping Star with Marco is a good idea. It's idolatry and one becomes hooked on the dopamine from the single-minded devotion.
Well, that was a self-absorbed rant. Maybe I did become autistic from all this after all.