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My date with a girl went bad. Possibly. Not sure.
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So I got a girl
And I was invited to her house today, for a date
I take a taxi to arrive there, paid for by her since she's loaded, and...
Ten minutes into watching netflix one of her friends shows up
A dense broad her age (They're 23 and so am I)
They act like they haven't seen each other in years, in the girly "I saw you yesterday and neither of us are feeling this lie but society says we must dance and screech" way
My girl invites new girl in
She comes in and I'm reclining on her sofa, but I decide to sit up and smile inoffensively instead.
New girl asks my girl if she wants to go to the bar
My girl says yes
I get up and start to follow her
My girl asks me if I'll be fine on my own, and leaves before I say anything, slamming the door in my face
I am left alone in her house, nobody around.
This house is empty and I'm in her house
She texts me and says if I stay in her house until she gets back she'll suck my dick
I watch anime on my to-watch list using her six different netflix service subscriptions
A Magical Girl Named Index or whatever it's called sucks ass.
She eventually gets back
Looks miserable but she lights up upon seeing me
genuinely surprised that I'm still there
considers it a sign of absolute loyalty to be treasured
I hug her, she hasn't been sweating and her scent hasn't changed
takes her friend upstairs to hold the broad's hair back as she vomits
then she gets bored and comes back downstairs while her vomiting friend hurls for another minute
and she sucks my dick for at least half an hour
I go home afterwards
she overpays by thirty dollars for taxi fare
I take a taxi home and type this up
She didn't dance, she just watched her friend be retarded, she tells me in a text.

Is this good?
How long have you known this girl? Was this (supposed to be) your first date? Sounds fishy to me, but I don't know your specifics.
Might be manipulative, controlling, and uses the wealth for shits and kicks.
>My girl asks me if I'll be fine on my own, and leaves before I say anything, slamming the door in my face
Girl time while on a date by leaving the date alone for however long?
That's odd.
Could be she doesn't want you to bang her friend?
It could be a shit test.
Could be she doesn't get social situations. I doubt that, but you never know.
I don't know that is weird. You might get an explanation later... maybe.
>Ten minutes into watching netflix one of her friends shows up
Surprise social visit, or really bad planning.
>she lights up upon seeing me
But this Implying that she was positive.
>genuinely surprised that I'm still there
And this could mean she is interested. That any kind of loyalty? never happened before.

>she sucks my dick for at least half an hour
That's good she can keep a promise. Even when previously she helped her friend in a gross situation.
>She didn't dance, she just watched her friend be retarded, she tells me in a text.
Actually thinking about you... sorta.

>Is this good?
Well you didn't get called by the police, or #METOO'd
That'a good.
You got your dick sucked that's good. Probably no diseases.
Only thing is that in the morning/afternoon see if she wants to go on another date.

Take what I said with a grain of salt.
.t forever-alone-guy
Two months, this was my fourth date with her and first date at her house.
She says tomorrow I can come over again.

You did great man! I'm rooting for your happiness.

Here's a pseudo-random pic.
Is everything alright OP?
That's really weird. All is good that ends good though. I'd have probably left unless you guys are just really casual, just hang out and eat her food.

Yeah, everything went good. I introduced her to Jojo's Bizarre Adventure, Danny's death made her run out of the room crying. I paused and followed her and stroked her back until she stopped. Then we went back to watching the show.
It's a good sign that she cried instead of screaming at the TV, right?
She isn't emotionally dead and isn't a psycho, and it looks like you both enjoy each other's company.
I'm taking a guess that running out or away is how she normally deals with tragedy, or that specifically was too much. Possibly a personal trauma, or that empathic.
Knowing everything beforehand is too much to ask of anyone.

I would have thought she would turn away into your arms for comfort, but on thinging more of that comes with more time, trust, and knowing one another.
It could also be I'm now a cold bastard... hmmm.

Congratulations OP it looks like you're both fortunate.
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Good luck OP, I don't think this chick will burn you, but the next might will.
Totally forgot I had this on hand. This seems like the right time to do so.


Flags may hide For a Long time [taken from art of manliness]
1. self-proclaimed “Drama Queen.
2. You can’t stand any of her friends.
3. They say ALL their exes are jerks.
4. They are a flake. (Can't keep a comitment)
5. They treats waiters like crap. (person’s empathy, social conscience, and maturity of moral thinking)
6. She expects to be treated like a princess.
7. You argue all. the. time.
8. She gets angry or guilts you when you want to spend time with your friends.
9. She never apologizes or takes responsibility for bad behavior.
10. She has a bad relationship with her family.* (depends on the family, may let down guard or the family is bad idk)
11. She’s not flexible.
12. You don’t share any core values or life goals.
13. She’s violent.
14. She’s stingy with the appreciation.

Another Check to do (mgtow+a few of my own I infered)
1. Only slept with X guys
(Sex is not that big of a deal to them)
(Is it a big deal to you?)
2. Daddy issues if there is any YOU get all the baggage that comes with it
3. Talking about marrage within one month you have been warned
4. Expencive useless stuff for scoial recognition (expensive valet when parking is just as good if you do it) [apologies later should NOT be taken into consideration] (vanity, and self importance, and no money sense)
5. Talk with Exes if you can they can bring a useful insight to Who she is. (Or not)
6. Trust your instincts and if they say something is Not Right there is a VERY High Chance something is REALLY NOT RIGHT.
7. How they treat others (see number 5 in manlyness)
8. How the treat/speak about males, strangers, uncles, brothers, fathers, grandfathers, male hero figure, ect. (Pay attention)
9. Are they Ex-Wives HUGE ORANGE FLAG HERE, Get more information alot more information
10. Do they have a sense of humor
1. Value use value chart/guide THIS CHANGES YOUR LIFE FOREVER think of this as EXTREME HIGH STAKES BUISSINESS VENTURE. (Get the value and growth, have minimal or no Anti-value)
2. Goals that don't interfere [minimum]
2.5 Goals/Actions that HELP YOUR GOALS
3. Does she accept you for Who you are?
4. Does she accept you for your beliefs?
5. Is it only for a resource YOU HAVE (money, fame, work, slave, servant, breeding genes, sex, heirlooms)
6. Give and Take for both sides
7. What does she care about
8. Fetishes can/will you accept X (this can somtimes tell a deper story)
9. BODY LANGUAGE pay attention they might let loose their gaurd because you are a man/ on the next dates
10. See How they Do things
11. See How they percive things
12. See WHY they do things
14. See WHY they percive things
15. How complex of a topic they understand and WHAT THEY DO and Why
16. Willfully ignorant?
17. Malicuously ignorant?
18. What habits do they have Positive or Negitive?

See next check for a better view
Second Check Before marrage

[ ] She is attractive, of course, but is that her chief asset? (Try to imagine her ten years from today.)
[ ] Do you want her because she is popular–because other men have wanted her? (Don’t be a copy-cat!)
[ ] Could you spend seven consecutive evenings in her company without being bored? (If the answer is affirmative, it is a good sign.)
[ ] Could you spend seven consecutive evenings in her company without being irritated/angery/(bad mood here)? (If the answer is affirmative, it is a good sign.)
[ ] Do you have similar tastes in most things?
[ ] Is she a good sport?
[ ] Is she reasonably healthy?
[ ] Is she a flirt? Does she make you jealous? (Decide whether you can stand the strain; your jealously will persist until you grow indifferent.)
[ ] Are you constantly irritated by some small mannerism of hers? (You can’t be terribly in love.)
[ ] Does she tell lies? Do you mind?
[ ] Is she a nag?
[ ] Is she quarrelsome? (The Bible warns, “It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop than with a brawling woman in a wide house.”)
[ ] Is she hard on other people? (Don’t judge by her behavior to you.)
[ ] Is she trying to reform you? How do you feel about being reformed?
[ ] Has she tried to boss you? (Maybe you need a boss.)
[ ] Would she put up with all your faults if she knew them?
[ ] When you quarrel, who capitulates first? (A combination of two stubborn mules is bad.)
[ ] Do you agree on children, or a career, or both? (Better settle this beforehand.)
[ ] Does she expect you to support her in a definite style? Could you count on her cooperation in hard times? Would she go to work if necessary?
[ ] Will she help you get ahead? Or will she pull you away from your work?
[ ] Can she handle money?
[ ] If you marry her, will you also be marrying her family?
[ ] Does she let you get around to see your old pals? (If you have been too infatuated to notice, make it a point of finding out.)
[ ] Are you proud to present her to your friends? (If not, reconsider.)
[ ] Do you hope to reform her? (Give up the idea. People change, but not according to plan.)
[ ] Do you know her faults? Are you willing to live with them?
[ ] Do you still think her perfect? (You’re wrong, of course, but marry!)
A girl rewarded you by sucking your dick like you would reward a dog with steak while training it.
She might be a good fuckbuddy if you're into that but dont let her "train" you.
Finally found this image. The whole thread has great information. How are you doing everything going well?
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