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How to deal with bullies ?
Lucifer
NW0Ok
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No.2049
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They are bullying me at school for 5 years,Somebody tell me what to do, I'm done with this shit.They are doing physical bullying,verbal bullying,social bullying and cyber bullying to me.someone give me advice,i telled the teachers , principal too,they are doing nothing,my parents know it too what a sick life,i really hate them.
Anonymous
OG/1v
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No.2050
2053
Physical retaliation. Fuck them up.
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Lucifer
NW0Ok
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No.2051
>>2050f for example ?

Lucifer
NW0Ok
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No.2053
2063
>>2050
oh i get what you mean
Anonymous
S1LzD
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No.2054
2058
>>2049
Just stand your ground and start bullying someone else, maybe one of your bullies.
Anonymous
s32+j
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No.2055
2057
Get /fit/, make allies at school and learn techniques. One way to get them to leave you alone is to grab 'em by the hair, throw 'em down and bite an ear off. Better not to leave any permanent scarring though or you might get in trouble (bullies often act like kikes and cry foul when someone retaliates).
Anonymous
OULgz
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No.2056
>>2049
I am not sure what is best solution. I never found a solution, but I was lucky and had one friend and was not all alone. As the years now has gone by I don't think of it anymore. It is a cliche but time heals all wounds.
One way is to try to ignore them all together (but it is hard to impossible to do).
Another solution if possible is to ask to be transferred to another school, and then sue the current school for not doing anything. You can probably sue the current school regardless (given you find a lawyer to do the case).
Lucifer
NW0Ok
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No.2057
2063
>>2055
well im tired of this goddamn life so i cant be a new person
Lucifer
NW0Ok
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No.2058
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>>2054 i cant do that,im not a bad person my nature is being a freak but i will not gonna let them do it again i will do them even worse things

Anonymous
FnElg
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No.2059
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>>2058
>my nature is being a freak
I could already tell from your atrocious grammar and namefagging. You're either still in elementary school or are intellectually stunted. How do we know you aren't a massive degenerate that deserves to be bullied? Have you thought about changing your own behavior?
Anonymous
zb+bs
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No.2060
>>2058
Then you will die.
Just follow the advice you pussy, no one is going to ever respect you if you act like a bitch.
Anonymous
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No.2062
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>>2049
Until now I kept my opinion only to myself, but it looks like you won't figure out how to solve your dilemma.
Let me point you at the Seb's threads >>>/sp/14435 → and >>>/sp/11605 →
Read them carefully, analyze Seb's mind and what /mlpol/ says. Them you might come to scary conclusions. For example, to retaliate against his tormentors will make the bullying infinitely worst; to keep course will keep his suffering alive; but, perhaps, only perhaps, to remake himself into something better might do the trick.
By the way, to off yourself or run away won't fix the problem, the key to success is inside you.
Anonymous
7D+Mb
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No.2063
>>2053
I don't think you do understand.

Bullies come in different flavors different mind sets ranging from the most bland to the most horrific horrors dreamt up by man.
One mind set is the social homogeneity, they want you to conform in some manner. Sometimes it's for good reason, sometimes it's because you are too different, and sometimes it's for a harmful personality trait. Sometimes it's because they are just being a dick.
Other times they don't want you in their social circle. Or they are trying to prove something to someone else by continuing.
>>2058
It's not that you can't the horror of life is that anything and everything is in your reach. In your ultimate freedom. it is that you ought not to do so.
>my nature is being a freak
Details, information, context changes everything. I need context to maximize the help I can give. Not personal details, just hypothetical general situation kind of stuff. How many bullies how often? What do they say? What do they do? Context matters it's the difference between an accident and deliberate action.
>i will do them even worse things
Why?

>>2057
>well im tired of this goddamn life so i cant be a new person
Oh, but you can everything is within the possibilities.
Especially when you are exhausted. When the Phoenix is all but ashes that is when it busts anew greater than before.
So identify your personality. Examine every aspect and determine if that specific thing makes you (You). Determine if it is important. How important. If it is something you show the world. If it is something you never show.
As you've no doubt heard from all authority figures "Their words only hurt if they matter to you." It is true and untrue. If you believe them to be doing so because they care? That hurts very much. If you believ they are doing it because they are bored? Not much stock should be put into what they say. If you believe they are doing so because they only wish to cause pain? It can be dismissed, but the truth always hurts the most and your own brain will not let you stop thinking of it until you choose to do something with that information.
Tell your mind that you've seriously considered the information and you have found it to be lies/misinformation/slander/are they failing at some level/true/untrue/honest feedback/bias/partially true but also not true/anything under the sun.
The reason why your brain will continue bringing it back up over and over is because there is no closure. No defined way for your subconscious brain to handle that information. So when it keeps collecting all the data, because that's its job, it brings it up because just simply ignoring a repetitive data set is ill-advised.

If all else fails get to know them. Once you truly know their desires and your own then you can go forth and enact your plans. The quickest way to defeat an enemy is for then to be your friend. Some people just won't be friends, but unless you know they could be.

The kittystyles lolcow thread vs seb. Not only look at who says what, but why, how, when. Look at the underlying flaws that are being poked at. Look at the posts made in jest, and the ones with heart and soul poured into them. Then the response to reach one. Is it the same, different, or nothing at all?
The difference between the pedo that molested his sister begging society for him to continue, and the delusional hack that copies from others hard work. Look at the political elite, and the banksters.
Maybe I'm looking at this all wrong, and I don't have all the facts, I think the option you should do going foward should be your own.
I recommend talking first.
At the very least live your life as you wish without harming others. But wasted potential for society can mean the difference between life and death for others. I wouldn't worry too much about it that's just the nature of life.
Anonymous
lfFkP
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No.2065
File (hide): ECA922F74C6905613F1B59E0F83805D4-9415397.mp4 (9.0 MB, Resolution:854x480 Length:00:03:02, The REALEST Anti-Bullying Ad Ever Filmed.mp4) [play once] [loop]
The REALEST Anti-Bullying Ad Ever Filmed.mp4
>>2049
Another take OP.
The message in the following video will only apply, if you stop being a faggot.
An internal transformation must take place first, such as getting into a gym or still better, learn martial arts. Not only to deter aggressors but the most important side: to mold your character.
You can do it.

Anonymous
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No.2066
File (hide): A1F522FDFF62BFC68BF130AF0844408F-11163856.mp4 (10.6 MB, Resolution:854x480 Length:00:03:36, Inspirational Alpha Nationalist Video.mp4) [play once] [loop]
Inspirational Alpha Nationalist Video.mp4
>>2049
Time to move your ass OP.
Either you keep crying like a bitch or you transform yourself.
And remember, your best friend is (you).
>Inspirational Alpha Nationalist Video

Anonymous
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No.2067
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>>2049
Hurry up OP, check this post out >>>/mlpol/254786 →
The gym is waiting for you.
Anonymous
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No.3093
>>2049
become the bully anon, attack them where it hurts for the long run
>grades
>feelings
>education
>character
Anonymous
f67f113
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No.3094
Totally different take (maybe, didnt watch the vids)
>>2049
They bully you because they do not fear you anon, because you are not formidable. You absolutely must become formidable, or you will always be prey.