I have been around for a couple of years but I never got this meme. I also never bothered to find out.>>2485>Is the woman female?
I am not a fucking burger.>In family court she wins just about every time.>I have a how to train a woman pic in here somewhere, but...>Watch for red flags, and YOU have the upper hand.>If she's divorced more than likely she initiated it.>Find out what her relationship to male figures in her life are, ect.>It depends on what YOU actually want.
I am new to this whole game but aware of what /pol/ thinks about this and this is part of my worry but on the other hand I think what Jordan Peterson said (even though he is controversial) hold some truth, relationships aren't toys you throw away once you are tired of it, you chain yourself up to each other and deal with the problems.>>2486
This is a lot responsibility and guiding anothern person? Heck I don't know shit! I am stuck there thinking for ours on what "life" or "being alive" means and now I am supposed to steer anohter human through life?>>2487
This is just it. Maybe I can prevent all this suffering? Unlikely but there is a chance.>>2488
I can't say you are wrong but I think that half of me thinks with the heart.>>2490>OP, you're attractive because you have things going for you
Despite my efforts I still got too little self-esteem to believe this>Do you want to win, or do you want to lose? It sounds all fi e and good, trying to be a role model and provider for righteous and reasonable children, but is that really true in this case?
There is a philosophical problem with this. What does it truely mean to win? Isn't helping other people a win on it's own in a species as social as our?
I am just trying to do the right thing.> OP is playing with a full deck, and B. This isnt attention seeking.
Look I started out in a broken family with a fuck load of problems and ran through a multitude of difficult undesireable situations. I was the scum of the earth.
Being the "cool one" or "having your shit together" being "respectable" or "someone to turn to" is new grounds for me.
This is uncharted teritorry for me and I do not know what the fuck to do because there are so many things to consider.>>2491
This is one of the things to consider and one of the reasons I am seeking help.>>2492>OP can't win this one without heavy loses. A single mother ass means trouble.
That is the thing man. All of the girls come with problems. Be it past relationships or a career they are pursuing that is in oposition to being a mother and wife or some problems they other problems they carry with them.
All of them are 3DPD in some sense.>>2496
I am so fucking conflicted. Do good where you can? Strive for the highest? Me vs. her?
Just fuck my life up, bro.