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Anonymous
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I need help.
All this improvement and learning the truth and fixing shit has lead to me being like... popular???
I do not know how to fucking deal with this. There are girls hitting on me (or presenting openings to hit on them).
I don't know how to deal with this situation. I don't want to make them feel bad by I also don't want to betray my waifu. One of them has a daughter and my head is running wild how to be the best I can be for that kid but also I don't want to be a cuck.
How to balance microchimerism vs saving your race vs staying true to your waifu?
I need help!
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This better not be another Nigel thread
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>>2483
So good answer. Is the woman female?
Yes, that means her options are to leach off of YOU because YOU are now a very desirable male specimen.
In family court she wins just about every time.
I have a how to train a woman pic in here somewhere, but...

Watch for red flags, and YOU have the upper hand.
If she's divorced more than likely she initiated it.
Find out what her relationship to male figures in her life are, ect.
It depends on what YOU actually want.
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>>2483
Here we go. I'd like to preface this. Only (You) can choose what you want and need to do.
For the love of all that is good, if you do get married, have a happy fulfilling marriage.
Everything about society (((they))) influenced will tear any goodness up. Ensure they fail in this aspect of your life yet again as you have continued to do.
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>>2483
>One of them has a daughter and my head is running wild how to be the best I can be for that kid but also I don't want to be a cuck.
Don't be that cuck. Many walked that path and ended burnt.
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>>2483
>One of them has a daughter and my head is running wild how to be the best I can be for that kid
Stop right there poner, you are thinking with your lower head.
Single mothers are the worst of the worst, they're whores looking for the next victim to squeeze. They're are like spiders and men are their meal, remember, only carcasses remain after.
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>>2484
God, I wish it was.
Anonymous
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>>2488
Soooooo this. OP, you're attractive because you have things going for you. Things going = resources to be extracted. It doesn't matter what she says or might say, because what she says is literally based on her hormone levels. This is why a woman can be totally committed one moment, and then decide 'fuck this guy' the next. The problem is largely that there are no consequences to this behavior. Indeed, the laws overwhelmingly support the female in almost every case.

Decide how how you want to play your cards. Do you want to win, or do you want to lose? It sounds all fi e and good, trying to be a role model and provider for righteous and reasonable children, but is that really true in this case? People will say whatever is necessary when theres a gun pointed to their head, and that gun doesn't have to be literal. >>2488
Single mothers will do ANYTHING for the feeling of security (note: feeling). If that means shacking up with a new guy who seems to have his shit together (You) then she'll do it. If that means fleecing you for everything you're worth because there's more security and freedom from doing so, SHE WILL. Women are hormonal, and thus driven. Theres nothing rational about them, they're purely driven by impulse. Sure, their overt impulse might be to get cozy, but what is really driving them? And can you really trust that she won't literally sacrifice you and everything you have because it makes her situation 'feel' a bit more secure?

Seriously, why are we even having this discussion? Considering where we are, I'm not sure A. OP is playing with a full deck, and B. This isnt attention seeking.
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>>2483
Wait shit I forgot to say something to OP
OP, stop being a faggot. As a white man with options it is your duty to produce the best white children possible, and as many of them as possible. Raise them well and don't be afraid to ask this site for parenting advice. Obviously people who jack their tallywhackers to Applejack's pecker all day are excellent sources for parenting advice, unironically.
Anonymous
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>>2491
>parenting advice
Not parenting advise, but disengagement all together.
OP can't win this one without heavy loses. A single mother ass means trouble.
Anonymous
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>>2483
As everyone has already said. Do Not Think With Your Dick!
Start fresh, the statistics are better that way. You can't be there for everyone as a father figure someone started a jewtube channel for that. You can be a Father of the nation, or community aka the pillar that does not replace but enables healthy families to exist.
It's another one of those manipulating commercials where you have to think of the children. The cost is your life, freedom and work. Till you die in misery. More or less.
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>>2484
I have been around for a couple of years but I never got this meme. I also never bothered to find out.

>>2485
>Is the woman female?
I am not a fucking burger.
>In family court she wins just about every time.
>I have a how to train a woman pic in here somewhere, but...

>Watch for red flags, and YOU have the upper hand.
>If she's divorced more than likely she initiated it.
>Find out what her relationship to male figures in her life are, ect.
>It depends on what YOU actually want.
I am new to this whole game but aware of what /pol/ thinks about this and this is part of my worry but on the other hand I think what Jordan Peterson said (even though he is controversial) hold some truth, relationships aren't toys you throw away once you are tired of it, you chain yourself up to each other and deal with the problems.

>>2486
This is a lot responsibility and guiding anothern person? Heck I don't know shit! I am stuck there thinking for ours on what "life" or "being alive" means and now I am supposed to steer anohter human through life?

>>2487
This is just it. Maybe I can prevent all this suffering? Unlikely but there is a chance.

>>2488
I can't say you are wrong but I think that half of me thinks with the heart.

>>2490
>OP, you're attractive because you have things going for you
Despite my efforts I still got too little self-esteem to believe this
>Do you want to win, or do you want to lose? It sounds all fi e and good, trying to be a role model and provider for righteous and reasonable children, but is that really true in this case?
There is a philosophical problem with this. What does it truely mean to win? Isn't helping other people a win on it's own in a species as social as our?
I am just trying to do the right thing.

> OP is playing with a full deck, and B. This isnt attention seeking.
Look I started out in a broken family with a fuck load of problems and ran through a multitude of difficult undesireable situations. I was the scum of the earth.
Being the "cool one" or "having your shit together" being "respectable" or "someone to turn to" is new grounds for me.
This is uncharted teritorry for me and I do not know what the fuck to do because there are so many things to consider.

>>2491
This is one of the things to consider and one of the reasons I am seeking help.

>>2492
>OP can't win this one without heavy loses. A single mother ass means trouble.
That is the thing man. All of the girls come with problems. Be it past relationships or a career they are pursuing that is in oposition to being a mother and wife or some problems they other problems they carry with them.
All of them are 3DPD in some sense.

>>2496
I am so fucking conflicted. Do good where you can? Strive for the highest? Me vs. her?

Just fuck my life up, bro.
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>>2499
>been around
>doesn't get the meme
Our definitions of 'around' varies greatly. No matter
https://youtu.be/y2Qjt5FjMdI
I'll let Ayn Rand explain. And as for being unprepared because of past circumstances, conditioning, and expectations, it's a little too late for that sort of talk. As for what is a win, that depends on you. Theres an infinitesimally fine line between helping others and doing the right thing, and being taken advantage of. And I say that having attempted precisely what you're describing, and all I have to show for it is regret. Maybe your situation isn't comparable, but maybe it is. The point is to put yourself first, however you choose to. Basically, I'm saying that whatever course you decide on, always remember that it can capsize in an instant, so realize that you might look back on your motivations NOW with different sentiments.
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>>2499
>This is a lot responsibility and guiding anothern person? Heck I don't know shit! I am stuck there thinking for ours on what "life" or "being alive" means and now I am supposed to steer anohter human through life?
You have one answer
>>2500
This is good advice.

>>2499
>Me vs. her?
Nononono, think of this as a business venture, how best could you influence and improve people's lives? Expand your thinking beyond the scope. This isn't about her this is about you. You could be the next Mr. Rodgers, or a personal touch that could disintegrate at any moment.
I'm not you, but this is something you must seriously consider and do all the possible background work and checks correctly and continually.
I am also saying approach this like you would a rabid venomous snake, and as a high risk investment.
If you need a third opinion look at MGTOW (men going their own way) they are some of the people being burned, but there is a small portion of the population with happy marriages maybe a 'happy' marriage but they will never say anything.
What Peterson is also true that relationships are serious commitments. Yet one side has an easy out at any moment with incentives to do so.
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>>2499
>I am so fucking conflicted. Do good where you can? Strive for the highest? Me vs. her?
Let explain because I was in your same dilemma and I fucked it a few times because nobody advised me.
Your problem has root in your raging hormones, and this is the reason because you WON'T listen to any advise. No matter how it will explained to you, your instinct to reproduce will be stronger and of course that woman will break your heart and your wallet.
In the extraordinary case that you would masturbate to blow some steam and let some reason permeate your brain, run, run for the hills from that cunt, because your thirsty beta's attitude is recipe for a train wreck.
See the thread >>1566 → → for further explanations and the needed corrections.
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>>2500
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Thank you for your input. Maybe I should tear up the numbers, yet part of me still doesn't want to make them feel bad.
Being thrust into an unknown situation really fucks you up.
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Dont throw the baby out with the bathwater yet anon, these are just things to keep in mind, be aware of, and utilize to temper your enthusiasm. Whether or not anything occurs for the duration, there is no harm in being social. No offense, but from what you've said you could probably use the practice. Just dont start getting fitted for a suit of shining armor unless you're planning to crusade