I'm coming to my wits end with this shit. I'm getting tired of feeling drained and passionless towards what I used to love. I want to write again. I want to enjoy playing games again. I want to wake up and not feel like I got to fap first just to get out of bed. I want to feel something other then nothing.
The thing is when I try I always fall right back in. I've made it three days and I saw some cleavage and suddenly got horny I thought I would collapse. I left and had to drive home but the urge would go away! I couldn't fight it and I felt so disgusted with myself. The moment I got home, I had to jerk it.
How do you guys deal with these urges? How do I get a life back?
/ub/ - Überhengst
Becoming better
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>>7456
>collapse was automatic.
Subconsciously you've set up an If statment.
If you have the root password on hand
You watch ze prons
Else
Alternative actions are taken.
The set up is easy for anyone to just do without knowing they've done it.
Such as thinking you've got to get a red Lamborghini to drive in style to get famous. That's obviously not true.
The setup action doesn't even match the testing condition or the ideal outcome.
More or less that's the thing.
Puting a task for the subconscious or unconscious to keep an eye on is something those parts are decent at.
It's part of why getting something off your chest is important and does matter. It's metaphorically clearing the air and getting closure. Helping in ending certain patterns.
It's like a paper trail for your mind to build on and off of.
>collapse was automatic.
Subconsciously you've set up an If statment.
If you have the root password on hand
You watch ze prons
Else
Alternative actions are taken.
The set up is easy for anyone to just do without knowing they've done it.
Such as thinking you've got to get a red Lamborghini to drive in style to get famous. That's obviously not true.
The setup action doesn't even match the testing condition or the ideal outcome.
More or less that's the thing.
Puting a task for the subconscious or unconscious to keep an eye on is something those parts are decent at.
It's part of why getting something off your chest is important and does matter. It's metaphorically clearing the air and getting closure. Helping in ending certain patterns.
It's like a paper trail for your mind to build on and off of.
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>>7457
>Subconsciously you've set up an If statment.
Yea. That's the idea behind EasyPeasy I suppose, "remove the IF statement bro you're the programmer, just do it and never look back". Easier said than done. (Or maybe not, EasyPeasy took forever to read)
>It's like a paper trail for your mind to build on and off of.
Not exactly sure what you mean. I read it as "form productive habits". This may be even more important, my life is stagnant since I tend to mindlessly scroll YouTube after work which is only marginally better than gooning.
Well now it is time for another test. I found a site that evaded my blocklist. Started to goon but I broke the mental cycle and stopped myself. About to go to bed. Can't block the site until Monday. Pray for me bros.
>Subconsciously you've set up an If statment.
Yea. That's the idea behind EasyPeasy I suppose, "remove the IF statement bro you're the programmer, just do it and never look back". Easier said than done. (Or maybe not, EasyPeasy took forever to read)
>It's like a paper trail for your mind to build on and off of.
Not exactly sure what you mean. I read it as "form productive habits". This may be even more important, my life is stagnant since I tend to mindlessly scroll YouTube after work which is only marginally better than gooning.
Well now it is time for another test. I found a site that evaded my blocklist. Started to goon but I broke the mental cycle and stopped myself. About to go to bed. Can't block the site until Monday. Pray for me bros.
I made it. It was not easy, and I did begin to browse porn evenings up to and including yesterday, but each session I regained my composure and aborted. Now my defenses are back up and the urges are gone, for now.
Happy Easter and remember we're all gonna make it.
Happy Easter and remember we're all gonna make it.
The first step towards nofap is total celibacy in favor of mares.
Once you've removed non-mare content your portfolio, you learn the proper discipline to stop clopping altogether.
Once you've removed non-mare content your portfolio, you learn the proper discipline to stop clopping altogether.
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eat fruits, aquire adrenaline and exercise, channel your libido up your spine, so you stop being a horny demon fuck
Achieved near nofap just by constantly sitting on boorus looking at pony pictures. No urge to jerk off to people at all. I even watched a few of my previously favorite porn videos. Despite having an erection, I didn't jerk off and soon the erection was gone.
I only jerk off once a week on a pony. It's been like that for two weeks now.
I only jerk off once a week on a pony. It's been like that for two weeks now.
Are people seriously still doing nofap in 2024? Just give it a few years, your overcharged libido will even out. I used to watch porn and beat it constantly, now I jerk it maybe once a week if even. I rarely view porn. Didn’t really take any special effort, I just got bored with it and moved on to other things.
>>7532
>I just got bored with it and moved on to other things.
Glad to read that. Many got disensibilized and in their quest for pleasure fell deeper and deeper into perversion.
Something like: vaginal>anal>BDSM>transvestism>pedophilia>murder
>I just got bored with it and moved on to other things.
Glad to read that. Many got disensibilized and in their quest for pleasure fell deeper and deeper into perversion.
Something like: vaginal>anal>BDSM>transvestism>pedophilia>murder
>>7533
Tbh I probably did get desensitized, but it didn’t really have that pipeline effect on me, it just meant I got bored with it and stopped. When I was a teenager I was like Beavis and Butthead, obsessing over boobs and naked girls and whatever, so as soon as I had access to porn I went crazy with it. After awhile though tits and vaginas and assholes all look the same and there’s no thrill anymore just in seeing that. At the same time that incessant sex drive you have when you’re younger just sort of ebbed off for me. So at this point I just fap occasionally when I need to and otherwise don’t really think about it. If I view porn at all it’s usually just for the duration it takes me to finish, which isn’t long. I honestly can’t imagine just sitting and gooning to it for hours the way some people do.
Tbh I probably did get desensitized, but it didn’t really have that pipeline effect on me, it just meant I got bored with it and stopped. When I was a teenager I was like Beavis and Butthead, obsessing over boobs and naked girls and whatever, so as soon as I had access to porn I went crazy with it. After awhile though tits and vaginas and assholes all look the same and there’s no thrill anymore just in seeing that. At the same time that incessant sex drive you have when you’re younger just sort of ebbed off for me. So at this point I just fap occasionally when I need to and otherwise don’t really think about it. If I view porn at all it’s usually just for the duration it takes me to finish, which isn’t long. I honestly can’t imagine just sitting and gooning to it for hours the way some people do.
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