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Confidence Thread and how to get a gf thread
Anonymous
TkJpw
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No.1252
1255
OK /ub/ im a little socially retardedwhich is why im on a chan site im looking for advice to help me be more confident and advice that would help me attract a QT 3.14 Nat Soc Gf
So Anon How Did you get your gf or wife ?please do share to help all the anons out there that desperately want to 1488
Anonymous
N3xFP
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No.1255
1256 1257
>>1252
Honestly the best advice I can give is look at the guys who get the bitches.
Most try to look at least somewhat decent and even if that doesn't work being capable and or wealthy will do the trick.
Just put yourself in situations with them.
Anonymous
TkJpw
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No.1256
1257 1260
>>1255
>wealthy will do the trick.
im low class im not swimming in money unfortunately.
> Just put yourself in situations with them.
ive basically stopped talking to them all together because i always make myself look retarded.
I Dont know what to do man.
Anonymous
rEoUT
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No.1257
1258 1260
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>>1255
I'm gonna have to disagree with this one. Guys who get 'the bitches' are good at getting bitches, but would likely be shit at getting a qt 3.14 Nat Soc grill. There's something to be said for method and confidence, but that's more a product of self-confidence.
>>1256
If you're specifically looking for a Nat Soc GF, you're gonna have to get creative. It's not like they're wearing swastikas on their sleeve. My advise is to get your shit together in whatever capacity you can. You'll want to maintain/upgrade your:
Hygene/grooming
Organizational skills
Grills pay attention to the little things, they're better at observing body language and facial cues than guys, and - fun fact - they have a better sense of smell than guys do, so if any aspect of you or your clothes aren't clean (or if you use shit soap to clean yourself/clothes) they'll know.
Moreover, a qt 3.14 gets offered dates/sex almost every day of their lives, you have to be prepared mentally and dispositionally to calmly and 'casually' circumvent the obstacles that they will present you with, but without making it obvious that that's what you're doing.
There are plenty of ppl on Youtube who offer good suggestions and advice, but take their work with a grain of salt; as I indicated, a pickup artist is good at picking up the sort of grill who wants to be picked up. If that's the sort of grill you're looking for, more power to you, but a Natsoc grill will probably have completely different standards.
>Tl;dr First step, spend at least the next 3 months becoming an uberhengst. When you do, your confidence will improve, you'll be more interesting to interact with, and will be seen as a more viable mate to prospective grills.
Anonymous
TkJpw
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No.1258
1259 1263
>>1257
>Hygene/grooming
check
>Organizational skills
3/10 im not the greatest at organization
>you have to be prepared mentally and dispositionally to calmly and 'casually' circumvent the obstacles that they will present you with, but without making it obvious that that's what you're doing.
What did you mean by this?

Anonymous
rEoUT
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No.1259
1261
>>1258
Grills will test you. They'll make statements and comments designed to discourage you or get under your skin, just to see how you respond. Anyone can affect a good approach, and these tests are to see if its just a front, or if you're legitimately the collected individual you're presenting yourself as. Youtube "Dating Shit test"
Anonymous
N3xFP
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No.1260
1261
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>>1257
I didn't mean bitches as in hoes but as in grillt. And what I meant with looking at people was looking at functioning relationships and not at pickup artists.
Women tend to favor guys they can rely on over wimps for example.

>>1256
Wealth and fitness is something you can work at.

An for looking like a retard:
Well tough luck but life has little shortcuts. Kids crawl then fall then walk and run at last.
Even if you had a bad start in life you got to unfuck yourself to get ahead first.
Probably you're acting like a retard but you can either give up or work on it. One sucks in the begining one all the time.

To get more into social watch others andere mimic them if need be. Try and fail.
Here is a 101. A smile is also a tool of communication give a small smile and a Hi. If things go south you can ask what went wrong.

Do it for Aryanne

Anonymous
TkJpw
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No.1261
1262
>>1259
>Dating Shit test
All of the ones i saw are made by niggers
>>1260
i Dont know if im cut out for it...
Anonymous
N3xFP
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No.1262
1264
>>1261
Only one way to find out besides millions of years of evolution show you got the potential

Fuck up and learn from it or hide and wither

Btw being cut out for something and talent are lies - everyone starts am zero
Anonymous
TkJpw
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No.1263
1265
>>1258
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GNo-lO1IlNU
is this one good? i found it helpful.
Anonymous
TkJpw
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No.1264
1266
>>1262
>Btw being cut out for something and talent are lies - everyone starts am zero
Thanks i needed to har that tbh.
Anonymous
qu8vp
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No.1265
>>1263
Not a bad video, but here's a white dude
https://youtu.be/sTyqu-zSdLo
Anonymous
wsp8B
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No.1266
>>1264
Just do it!
It sucks at first but your progress will make it worth it. As with most things in life it takes effort to improve stuff.
I believe in you, Anon.
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